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Him and only Him

there are some things in life that we get to choose, and some things are just beyond our control. evidently, death is something we don't get to choose. only He knows when and how. It is He (Allah) Who gives life, and causes death, and to Him you (all) shall return. سورة يونس , Yunus, Chapter #10, Verse #56

dear daughter...

if i had a daughter, this is what i would tell her about love and the type of man she should marry.. love will not guarantee your marriage will last find a man who will make you happy for the rest of your life. happiness! you can have a man who loves you unconditionally before you get married, but once you tie the knot, love will not sustain your marriage. love is a concept. love can fade away. in-love experience is temporary. it's a feeling you develop after a certain period of time but happiness would sustain your marriage as you need to be happy with the person you're marrying. more importantly, if you are happy so will your marriage. find a husband who prays 5 times a day according to islam, husband is the head of the family. as the head of the family, the foundation needs to be strong. as long as the foundation is strong, the marriage will stay strong too. who doesn't drink alcohol a friend once told me, alcohol is the mother of all evil. a guy who is an alcoh

fresh start

happy new year! this year, i plan to write more than i did last year ;) i hope everyone had a fun and exciting new year's eve celebration with their loved ones. i certainly did had fun with my dad. just the two of us! there are so many things i would like to write about but i really need to do it in a structured way because i don't want sensitive topics to be raised, or anyone's feeling gets hurt. til we meet again!